It’s not always easy for children to approach their parent or loved one about selling their home and moving into a senior living community. Often, this happens when they’ve noticed they can’t keep up with their home or need additional assistance. However, it can be just as difficult for parents to approach their children about this topic. Maybe this is where they grew up or attended several special holidays with you and your family. Or, you may not want to feel like a burden on your children when you ask them for help selling and moving.

Here are some tips on how to talk to your children about selling your home and moving into a senior living community:

Set up a time to talk.

Reach out and ask them if they have time to get together and talk. Allow yourself enough time for this initial conversation in case any questions or concerns arise so you can work through them and come to a decision. If possible, consider meeting at a private place or somewhere where everyone will be comfortable expressing their thoughts together. 

Create a plan.

We understand that the thought of selling and moving can be overwhelming, and it can be difficult to ask others for help. However, creating a plan that divides the responsibilities can ease the burden on everyone. Decide what you can do on your own, and what you will need help with.

Maybe you can easily pack up your kitchen and bathroom, but will need help with your bedroom and living room. Maybe you know what realtor you want to use, but you aren’t familiar with what senior living communities are nearby. Be clear about what you need and how your family can help.

Request that you be involved in decisions.

Sometimes it may seem easier to your children that they take the reins on planning and preparing. It’s important to emphasize from the very beginning that you remain as involved as you want to be. If you’d rather they research different senior living community options and you only join for the tour, let them know. If you want to be present when your children are packing and moving items, share that as well. Ultimately, you will be the one moving and finding your home in a new, unfamiliar place—so you should help your children understand that you want to feel comfortable wherever you end up.

Arrange ongoing conversations.

Sometimes selling your home and finding a senior living community can be a complicated, sometimes lengthy process. Ask that you and your children talk or meet occasionally, like once or twice a week, to review details and progress of selling the house and finding a senior living community. That way, you’ll have a chance to catch up on everything, stay organized and feel more prepared.

Here at 10 Wilmington Place, we understand that moving from your home can be difficult. We want to help you find a new home that will be just as special. If you’re interested in learning more about our senior living community, schedule a visit today!